End Friendship

Remember to Live.

A journey of emotional trauma and struggles.

Movement for mental health.

07.03.26

So I've been thinking to share my extemporaneous speech... and here I am writing it. The photo shown to me is a street placard with a end friendship written on it.

End Friendship

Good Day everyone!

There are Friendships that we need to end. Not because we want too but because we need too.

Ending friendship is much more painful than breaking up with your lover. Imagine ending your friendship with your bestfriend for how many years what would you feel?

There are many reasons unto why we need to end friendships however I'll just give three. First, that friend of ours is mooching us off. This friend only approach us because she/he benefit from us, then if we are not needed anymore, we are simply discarded like a piece of paper. When we are in need, this friend doesn't bother to help us and just brush us off. She/he may also say 'do it yourself you're not worth my energy'. 

Second, betrayal. This friend of us may pretend to care but in really she/he was doing something behind our back. She/He might be backstabbing us, spreading rumors that aren't true or painting us like a villain in front of other people. This breaks the trust we give to them.

Lastly, Toxic. The friendship is toxic to the point that we can't even breathe properly and it keeps draining our energy. He/She is manipulative, making you do something that benefits him/her. Sometimes you even break your ideals and morals just to fit in on that friendship.

To avoid ending a friendship, you have to choose and know the people you want to befriend. See to it that they will help you grow into a better version of yourself. A group or a person who will help you succeed not bring you down. A circle of friend or a person who will always be there for you when you needed them. That way you will not end a friendship.

To conclude, there are friendships which is necessary to end. Not because you want too, but because you need too. For you to have a peace of mind, to be able to breathe and meet other people who's worth it in your life. 

That's all thank you very much!

That's the end of my speech, see you for the next episode of sharing. Have a good night!